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  • (21 mins ago)
    @Colorado.EDU -- Look It Up -- True!

    INTRODUCTION TO STANDARDS: V5N1
    by Marlon Riggs

    It's no longer enough, if it ever was, to critique interlocking systems of oppression without offering affirming alternatives of how society should and can reconstitute itself. As we move into the inevitably more demanding multilingual, multicultural environment--both nationally and globally--of the next century, our greatest task will be an inversion of the commonly assumed equivalence between difference and disunity. We must re-write this equation, demonstrating again and again that unity does not require unanimity, that unity--that is, a sense of social cohesion, of community--can and does derive from the expression, comprehension, and active nurturing (and not merely tolerance or fetishization) of difference.
  • (21 mins ago)
    TODAY IS WORLDS AIDS DAY -- you know that? This man mentioned below has 3 separate and complete AIDS QUILT PANELS from different people in the collection -- but still that will not enable you to find this person of value to read.

    You are seriously crazy to not realize that conversation flows in my space -- if it is a conversation -- with MORE TEXT APPLIED to each reading/writing time.

    "Hey There" is incomparable to my ideal of chatting on this site. understand. ?

    EXPAND YOUR THOUGHTS AT EACH TIME YOU SEND OUT AND I WILL DO THE SAME --
    BUT ULTIMATELY that is not why you are hitting me up -- I know it.

    YOU WANT TO REMAIN SIMPLE SHORT AND SWEET TO BE A INTERFERENCE NOT A CONTRIBUTION TO MY LIFE. --- Do you not see my point of view? Don't bother saying you are EXCUSED from such, because even I am not being targeted on a list. it is about STANDARDS this is POSTED at - -- to the community to which you are reaching out to, as you say -I bet you have not even a clue to whom this person is.
  • (33 mins ago) I dont bother writing a huge intro because nobody talks to me anyway when I do. So if you're interested in talking you do. If you arent, you dont. It's simple.

    And I didn't block you because the nonsense you're spewing out without any actual appropriate punctuation is making me laugh.

    Its a fuck site and you're acting deep when your profile picture is your ass. Are you on something?

    Also cut the copypasta nonsense. Its not impressive.

  • (40 mins ago) Well, I will tell you this -- if you have not yet blocked with me an attitude --- on your profile name--- this text of mine matches to something of the last word in it "lost"

    We can carry on from there --- but honestly guy -- if you are going to hit me up from such a long way away -- why don't you provide that introduction -- so I know [ and others ] understand what is your intention is --- that is nice -- we get 2000 characters to write text into on this site -- and a conversation is defined as 200 messages to/from each other - why have such an open text space if not to use it -- I USED IT -- YOU COMPLAINT -- YOU CAN'T -- if you want to complain of such thing -- ASK ADAM4ADAM to LIMIT THE SPACE of others to which they can write to you -- but then that says something of your characters --- YOU ARE SHALLOW --- so lets get that straight up right off...

    Do you want to remain lost?

    "The pathway that the mind travels..."

    We know it exists today because so many of us have personally experience it and speak about it with face to face language. We have it, but it has an unusual characteristic that provides no means of a historical chronicle should it decay to ruins. It is silent to our ears; no audio recording can exist. It is invisable to our eyes; no photographs can be taken. Can't touch it, no smell or taste. It does exist and what exists around our world usually follows either natural effects of time decay and withering away by accidental or hostile acts of destruction. Should it disappear it will be lost.

    - An Individual Human Thought-
    Monday, October 14th, 1996 07:48PM PT
    The Birth of "In The Mindway"
  • (44 mins ago) I mistakenly thought based on your profile that you might be interesting to talk to, instead you are visibly crazy.
  • (45 mins ago) um I said hi cause I occasionally reach out to poz guys in Colorado to talk to because I'm in Wyoming. What I didn't need is to write an essay man. I dont even know what exactly you would define on my profile as "mismatched" since I dont bother with long nonsense descriptions on a site where most people are going to ignore me anyway.

    Not: What is clearly copypasta nonsense that is built to achieve god knows what.

    I was literally just trying to say hi dude. Find your chill.
  • (49 mins ago) "hey there" -- sorry --- two words instead of a one --
  • (49 mins ago) Can you tell me what is in my profile that makes you hit a "Hi" at me?

    PLEASE RESPOND KINDLY -- I question why a sudden activity has been given to me under what we would consider MISMATCHING profiles --- what I would like you to do is find some text on my profile to QUOTE and then take that text an EXPAND ON that interest --- thank you.
  • (49 mins ago) hi ---

    What is there? Am I on a list? - which only people who are reaching out to me here on a4a to bug annoy or waste my time? Partake in what is called "Perversion of Time" ??

    Undateable: Some Reflections on Online Dating and the Perversion of Time
    Lucas Hilderbrand / University of California, Irvine

    [ excerpts ]:

    Future

    The marketed temporality of online dating is futurity: that, if a user logs in, they will find a partner. The allure of online dating is the belief in a structure of possibility: in this utopia (virtual non-place), you will find the perfect match. Using interfaces of self-representation and algorithms of compatibility, various sites suggest that there is, at least in theory, someone for everyone and that the most efficient way to meet is via database calculations. More than once, I’ve been advised that the only way to meet people is to go online. This mythical structure of possibility suggests that, if you keep searching, you will find someone, but also that there might always be a better match in the future. There’s an illusion of unlimited options and a continued hope that new and better matches will come online. Thus, there’s also a recurrent temptation for deferral.

    Finally, I’ll finish with a few words on the globalization of dating habits for gay men: TV shows and films are not the only transnational flow of media displaying/offering new ways of dating. Grindr works worldwide, and for the one who finds himself at the border between Spain and France, gay men from both countries log on the app at any hour. Habits that are to be found on OK Cupid/Grindr in the US do carry over in Europe, so that there is a worldwide leveling of dating etiquette: ignore if you’re not interested, ask for more pictures if you are, and ask “what are you into?” right away to waste as little time as possible. If it’s a match, enjoy your sexual “gaytertainment”, and if not, you simply have to say “Next.” ;-)
  • (57 mins ago) hey there

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